Friday, July 17, 2015

Homosexuality: Revealing the Sin and A Call to Repentance

*Edited October 20, 2015.*

Every human being is bound to a moral standard.  That moral standard may originate from his or her rationality, a political belief, or a religious belief.  Whichever standard our morals operate by, we are bound to abide by that standard only.  Whichever standard we claim, it would be intellectually honest of us to operate by that standard alone without deviating from it, otherwise it becomes confusing to identify which moral standard you operate by.  If we create our own moral standard, morality is free to be bent and broken to our subjective rules, which is, of course, dangerous.  If your morals are influenced by politics, your beliefs will be one way as a Democrat and another way as a Republican, or whatever other political party you affiliate yourself with.  If your morals are influenced by the religion your keep, your morals are bound to the authority of the god you worship.  As Christians, we strictly believe that the Word of God is the main authority over all authorities — that God and His Word have authority over all governments, all political agendas, and all human rationality — over all men no matter one’s social status.  It is the same for all Christians.  If one claims to be Christian, they are claiming God’s Word as the ultimate authority and when they indefatigably and unrepentantly deviate from His Word, they declare otherwise.  Therefore, as God’s Word unmistakably declares homosexuality as a sin, the responsible Christian will not contradict this declaration and therefore must not condone the sin as they would any other sin.

The Abominable Sin
I will be covering three fallacies (and three sub-fallacies) that people utilise to condone homosexuality, but before I get to them we need to go to the Scriptures that reveal the sinfulness of homosexuality.  We first see God unequivocally forbidding homosexual activity in the Law in Leviticus 18:22, “You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination.”  Before He said this, God condemned Sodom and Gomorrah for their homosexuality and other sexual deviances (Genesis 18:20-21; 19:4-5, 24-25).  (Homosexuality is not the only sexual sin, and not the only sexual sin that Sodom and Gomorrah were condemned for.  Nevertheless, homosexuality is still a sin, God singling it out as “an abomination.”)  The condemnation of homosexuality is not only found in the Old Testament; it is in the New Testament as well.  In his second epistle, St. Peter uses the example of Sodom and Gomorrah as a warning for people of all ages:

…and if He condemned the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah to destruction by reducing them to ashes, having made them an example to those who would live ungodly lives thereafter; and if He rescued righteous Lot, oppressed by the sensual conduct of unprincipled men (for by what He saw and heard that righteous man, while living among them, felt his righteous soul tormented day after day by their lawless deeds), then the Lord knows how to rescue the godly from temptation, and to keep the unrighteous under punishment for the day of judgement, and especially those who indulge the flesh in its corrupt desires and despise authority. (2 Peter 2:6-10; italics added.)

There is both Law and Gospel in this passage.  The Law here is that homosexuality is an abominable sin as God has declared, using Sodom and Gomorrah to illustrate what will happen to those who are unrepentant of the same and other sins.  The Gospel here is that since God rescued the one man, Lot, from a sinful city because of his righteousness, then certainly God knows how to rescue us from our sin and the surrounding sins of those around us.  “No temptation has overtaken you but such as is common to man; and God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will provide the way of escape also, so that you will be able to endure it” (1 Corinthians 10:13).  Any temptation you experience is nothing new; God will provide a way for you to endure it and overcome it.  However, if you constantly reject His help, you will remain “unrighteous under punishment for the day of judgement.”

Likewise, in Jude 6-7 we read, “And angels who did not keep their own domain, but abandoned their proper abode, He has kept in eternal bonds under darkness for the judgement of the great day, just as Sodom and Gomorrah and the cities around them, since they in the same way as these indulged gross immorality and went after strange flesh, are exhibited as an example in undergoing the punishment of eternal fire.”

In Romans 1:18-32, we read of God’s wrath against all the godlessness and wickedness of man, homosexuality falling under that category.  Specifically in verses 26-27, St. Paul describes homosexuality as a wicked perversion of God’s will:  “For this reason god gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural, and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error.”

“Jesus Didn’t Talk About Homosexuality”
Before I start with the first logical fallacy, I must first debunk a common argument people make and then briefly discuss the origin of marriage.  They say, “Well, Jesus didn’t talk about homosexuality, so it’s not a sin.”  (These people ignore the rest of the New Testament that defines it as a sin, denying the inspiration of the Holy Spirit working through the New Testament writers, thus making it the Word of God.)  Let’s take a look at 1 Timothy 1:8-11, “Now we know that the Law is good, if one uses it lawfully, understanding this, that the Law is not laid down for the just but for the lawless and disobedient, for the ungodly and sinners, for the unholy and profane, for those who strike their fathers and mothers, for murders, the sexually immoral, men who practise homosexuality, enslavers, liars, perjurers, and whatever else is contrary to sound doctrine, in accordance with the gospel of the glory of the blessed God with which I have been entrusted.”  The Law now speaks to the type of sinners mentioned here, which is really every single sinner (all of us).  This is why God’s Word offends unrepentant sinners like homosexuals because His law still condemns them, and it is “in accordance with the gospel” of God.  So, “Jesus never talked about homosexuality” is an invalid argument.  Jesus never talked about rape either, yet we know rape is a sin and immoral.  That, and rape, like homosexuality, is categorised as a sexual sin.  “Gospel” and “Good News” are the same word in Greek (εὐαγγέλιον), and Jesus is the Gospel/Good News (Mark 1:1).  Therefore, this part of the Law is in accordance with Jesus Christ the Gospel because the glory of God has revealed it as so.  Or, to put it more simply, since Jesus is God (Matthew 1:23; John 1:1, 14; 8:24; 10:30), He did in fact talk about it.

The Origin of Marriage
Genesis 2:18, “Then the LORD God said, ‘It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.’ ”  God did not want man to be alone.  This is the first time God said something was “not good.”  He created “a helper fit for” Adam.  While it is vital to see the implications of marriage inherent in this passage, we should also see that God did not want man to live in isolation.  God solved Adam’s loneliness by creating a wife for him, but keep in mind that Eve was not just a wife — she was another human being, specifically a woman, someone completely different than Adam yet complementary.  In other words, God designed human beings to live in relationship with one another; and in this case with marriage, only with the opposite sex.  The helper fit for Adam was a woman; therefore a man would be unfit for Adam; and vice versa for women.  All Adam was familiar with was the male sex, but God didn’t give him a choice.  He specifically created someone different yet complementary — a woman.

The Love Fallacy
There are three commonly used logical fallacies to condone homosexuality.  The first fallacy is what I call the Love Fallacy.  I believe this is the most often used argument for homosexuality, especially with the hashtag “love wins” when gay “marriage” was legalised (which is ironic because they don’t extend that love towards people who disagree with the gay lifestyle, so really hate won that day).  The argument is that because homosexuals “love” each other, that gives them the right to fulfil their sexual desires.  This argument commits three sub-fallacies within itself:  equivocation, special pleading, and argumentum ad populum (literally “an argument to the people”).  Equivocation occurs when the definition of a word changes in the middle of a proposition or syllogism.  I could use this argument to justify why I want to marry and/or have sex with my grandmother, or niece, or even my dog since I love them all.  However, someone using this argument will quickly say that it’s not the same thing when it in fact is when you follow this line of logic.  Christians have forewarned that if gay marriage is legalised, then pedophiles will also use this love fallacy to legally marry and have sex with children, and indeed they have (see this article http://www.inquisitr.com/2209930/allen-west-pedophiles-supported-by-scotus-gay-marriage-decision/).  The argument used with the love fallacy is that love justifies all things.  If you love that person or thing, then you have the right to have sex with them and even marry them.  However, if I use that same logic towards something other than a homosexual drive, the definition will suddenly change to mean something else.  You can’t assign a definition to love that supports your perspective and then suddenly change that definition into something else when it’s used for a different perspective that you disagree with.  Therefore, the love argument is invalid.

Special pleading is when a law or rule applies to every circumstance except a specific circumstance because of a unique property it has.  With this, people have the knowledge that God defines homosexuality as a sin, along with other sexual sins, but they will make the exception with homosexuality and accept the sin whether it’s because they know someone who’s a homosexual or because they believe it’s not as bad as adultery, premarital sex, incest, rape, bestiality, or pedophilia.  It is logically fallacious to be aware of a category of sins/wrongs (sexual sin in this case) yet deny the sinfulness of one of those sins just because you can’t manage to agree with that part of God’s decree.  We don’t get to pick and choose what is and what isn’t a sin.  Only God can define sin, and He has in Scripture.  An example of special pleading is a mother who says, “Yes, your honour, I do know that all convicted drunk drivers go to jail, but he’s my son!  He’s a good boy who’s just made a mistake!”  Sure, he made a mistake, but the law doesn’t care; the law shows no partiality, has no compassion, and it certainly doesn’t care about your circumstances.  Likewise, special pleading with homosexuality is, “Yes, God, I know that all the sexual sins You listed are sinful, but homosexuals love each other so it’s okay!”  No, it’s not okay.  The Law of God dictates that homosexuality is sin and that if you commit any sin, you are condemned, for “the wages of sin is death” (Romans 6:23).  But there is forgiveness, there is redemption, and there is freedom to overcome our sin in Jesus Christ who died for our sins.

Before we get into the next major fallacy, argumentum ad populum is an argument that claims to be inherently true because the majority of the population confirms it to be true or false.  The majority of Nazi Germany practised argumentum ad populum to justify their belief that it was right to kill all Jews and anyone else who didn’t conform to their standards, but did that make it morally right?  Of course not, because God defined murder as sin.  Murder didn’t suddenly because morally justifiable because there was a majority consensus that accepted it.  It’s the same thing with homosexuality.  Popular consensus does not define sin or make something legitimate when both natural law and God’s Law say otherwise.  Humans don’t get to redefine sin.  God defines it, and Scripture is where we have a record of His definition.  As I established earlier, the Bible states in both the Old and New Testaments that homosexuality and all other kinds of actions are sinful.  It specifically says that homosexuality (and other perverse sexual acts) is an abomination to God.  You can believe what you choose to believe, but it does not change what the Word of God declares.

The Born-This-Way Fallacy
In my discussions with people, many of them believe that homosexuality is something that one is born with and several of them have asked me, “When did you choose to be straight,” as if that would stump me.  My answer is this:  I didn’t choose; God made me straight.  All people are born within the male and female order of creation.  Even natural law (science) agrees with this.  If I choose any other sexual deviancy (e.g. LGBT, adultery, fornication, etc.), I am choosing a perversion of God’s good design.  No one is born having decided that they’re going to be an adulterer, or a rapist, or a sexual sadist, or any other perversity; it’s a decision they make later on in life due to whatever environmental condition led them to make that decision.  Homosexuals are no different and no more special than other sexual deviants who choose to act outside the sexual order of God’s creation (which was a monogamous marriage free of sex prior to marriage, free of adultery, etc.).  When we choose to sexually act out of God’s created order, we are willingly choosing to act on sexual desires outside of God’s will, which He has defined as sinful, rather than embracing what God has commanded.  All of these choices are made by turning away from God’s intention of what is acceptable, not away from some mythical neutrality based on an evolutionary view of man.  Even evolution speaks against homosexuality.  Here’s an excerpt from World Net Daily:
The laws of evolution and of genetic succession are particularly harsh on any trait that prevents reproduction, so let’s start with a simple formula that paints a stark picture: “One gay man + one gay man = zero gay children.”
Or we can look at the female side of the picture: You can go back maybe 10 generations and assume any fertility rates (number of children per woman) for lesbian and straight women and calculate what would happen. Even a slight difference would cause a homosexual gene to rapidly fade from the population. On the other hand, if the fertility rates were the same, how could women be considered lesbians if they were having the same amount of heterosexual sex to produce an equivalent number of children? Even if a tendency toward homosexuality were genetic, every time that gene expressed itself, it would fall out of the gene pool. Ask any genetics teacher, “Could homosexuality be genetic if there is no mechanism for gays to pass their genes on to children as frequently as straights pass genes on to their children?” While you are at it, propose any percentage of gays in the starting population and any fertility rates for gays and straights, and ask for the mathematical calculations of how rapidly a homosexual gene would die out. (Irvin, 2012.)

Without the foundation of a moral absolute, there is no basis upon which anyone can call any kind of sexual behaviour wrong; they can only call it different and pass no moral judgements.  Christians look to God for the absolute standard and trust His revealed Word to make our judgements.  Arguing that people are born gay and that it is not a choice is arguing against what god has revealed as His will in His Word.  Even if people are born with the propensity to seek sexual affection from the same sex, that does not make it right or “normal.”  From this line of logic, the people making this argument would have to excuse other moral wrongs and sins because people are born with the propensity to be an adulterer, a compulsive liar, a murderer, a rapist, a thief, and so on.  Any moral perversion, from the propensity to be a compulsive liar to the propensity to be a psychopathic serial killer, would be justified under the same “born-this-way” argument.  Of course, people who make this argument will disagree, once again committing the equivocation fallacy.

The Happiness Fallacy
This argument supposes that homosexuality is right because “everyone has the right to be happy.”  By this remark, they perhaps think of the right to the pursuit of happiness in the U.S. Constitution.  But that statement by our founding fathers gives us the  right to do exactly what it says — to pursue happiness; it doesn’t promise that the government will give it to you.  Also, following this line of logic that everyone deserves to be happy is essentially saying that if something makes you happy, whether it’s moral or not, you should be allowed to do it.  That’s basically what anarchy is — doing whatever makes you happy, whatever pleases you, and it only leads to chaos and moral depravity.  Murderers are perfectly happy murdering innocent people.  Sexual sadists are perfectly happy raping women and molesting children.  Many men are perfectly happy having sex with as many women as they want and the same goes for women with men.  So by this logic, we could justify their actions since it makes them happy.  And again, those who support homosexuality  will disagree and then we’re  back to the equivocation fallacy again.

I have heard the argument and even sermons from “pastors” (like the heretic Joel Osteen) that God wants everyone to be happy.  A bigger lie could not have been told.  Nowhere in Scripture does it say that the goal of faith is ultimate happiness.  A life with  God in the centre can  bring joy, but even then, tribulation is inevitable, for we “share abundantly in the sufferings of Christ” (2 Corinthians 1:5).  Not only that, but Jesus said, “In this world you will have trouble” (John 16:33).  If God was only concerned with our happiness, then He would tell us everything we want to hear and give us everything we want.  Rather, He tells us what we need to hear through the Law (which is not what we want to hear) and Gospel (which many reject in spite of its Good News).  And by His grace and mercy, he chastises and blesses us.  Our happiness is irrelevant.  We live this life and the life to come for god, not for ourselves.  Happiness is ever waning in a sinful world, but the joy of the Lord is eternal.  Life has nothing to do with us; it is all about God and His glory.

A Call to Repentance
Keep in mind that homosexuality is not the only sexual sin, and neither is it the worst sin.  (If you haven’t gotten that by now with the many times I put in parentheses, “and other sexual sins,” then you need to pay more attention.)  God likewise condemns adultery (Matthew 15:19; Hebrews 13:4).  God condemns bestiality (Leviticus 18:23).  God condemns incest (Leviticus 18:6-7; 1 Corinthians 5:1).  God highly condemns rape to the point that the rapist must be punished by death and the victim is innocent (Deuteronomy 22:25-28).  Lastly, God condemns fornication — that is, premarital sex and promiscuity (Hebrews 13:4; 1 Corinthians 6:18).  People who are unrepentant of all these sexual immoralities, including homosexuality, along with other non-sexual sins, will not inherit the kingdom of God (1 Corinthians 6:9-10).  If you’re for homosexuality or you are a homosexual, you may have heard the prior First Corinthians passage thrown at you numerous times.  Or if you’re not gay and you’re against it, you may have been the one throwing the passage at people (which I exhort you to stop doing).  In either instance, verse eleven is always left out, which says, “And such were some of you.  But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.”  People in the Corinthian church were guilty of all these sins that Paul listed, and he reminded them of their baptism, so this is more so for believers.  But if you’re not a believer, then  it’s not too late to believe and be baptised and forsake your sins.  As Christians, because we are justified in Christ by our baptism, all of these things are unnatural ways of life.  We have been forgiven for all these sins, therefore we must not continue to live in them.  Whichever sin enslaves you, turn from your wicked ways and let Christ enable you to overcome it!  God forgives and cleanses all our sins.

Therefore, do not fret; there is no reason to fear.  Through baptism, daily repentance, and the forsaking of our sins as God enables us, we are able to be free from  any sin that enslaves us.  After confession, forsaking the sin must follow.  If you repent of a sin and yet still commit the sin, then you’re still guilty of it.  “Whoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy” (Proverbs 28:13).  Confessing the sin grants you forgiveness, but physically forsaking the sin frees you from its physical bondage, which can only be done through the strength of Christ, hence, “I can do all things through Him who strengthens  me” (Philippians 4:13).  How can you be free from the clutches of the sin that once bound you when you still practise it?  I’m not saying  that you’re saved by your own works.  God forgives us before we even ask.  A criminal who serves his or her sentence and yet still commits the same crime after being exonerated upon completion of their sentence is still guilty of that crime.  Or say you’re  reformed drug addict.  If you start indulging in the drug again, are you still purified from that substance?  Of course you’re not.  It is the same thing with sin.  Repent of the sin with a contrite heart, resulting in God’s immediate forgiveness, yet if you continue to commit the sin, then you are still guilty of that sin.  God will still forgive you, but you’re still guilty of that sin if you just turn right back to it after repenting.  Because if you confess, and then immediately revert to your self-medicating sin, you obviously didn’t really mean it.

Forgiveness, even with the effects of baptism, does not grant you permission to freely commit and/or dwell in a particular sin you enjoy.  Forgiveness is the recognition of the poison of your sins as God willingly cleanses you from its poison.  As St. Paul wrote in Romans 6:1-4:

What shall we say then?  Are we to continue in sin that grace [that is, God’s forgiveness] may abound [be abundant]?  By no means!  How can we who died to sin still live in it?  Do you not know that all of us who have been baptised into Christ Jesus were baptised into His death?  We were buried therefore with Him by baptism into death, in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, we too might walk in newness of life.  [Brackets added.]

Baptism is the death of our original sin and as we rise from the waters, we emerge into a new life in Christ — hence being born again.  Therefore, as St. Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 6:11, such a lifestyle of living in sin when baptised is unnatural and a denial of what God has done in your baptism (not just the homosexual lifestyle, but any sinful lifestyle gone unrepentant).  Forgiveness cleanses you from that sin; forsaking the sin is what enables you to live free of its misery and condemnation as a result of sin.  “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9).  Likewise, “If we are faithless, He remains faithful, for He cannot deny Himself” (2 Timothy 2:13).

Suffering in sin is an inevitable part of life that we all must endure in a sinful world.  The good news is that God enables us to endure it (1 Corinthians 10:13).  Whether we allow it to overwhelm and therefore rule our lives or let God take control is ultimately up to us.  And it may require some necessary and arduous sacrifices.  The sacrifice for non-reformative homosexuality is celibacy for one’s entire life (as it is for the pedophile).  In this way, we can see how faith truly is a gift as one is enabled through the grace of Christ to conquer the sin and its dominion over him or her rather than living completely bound to its chains.  Consider how minuscule this sacrifice is to make for Christ when he gave His life for every single one of us and every sin that underprops our suffering.  No sacrifice is greater than that.  Sure, sex may feel wonderful, but do you absolutely need it?  One may say yes, but unless you’re planning on procreating, you don’t need sex to live; you can literally live without it and live a meaningful, fulfilling life.  I personally know some Christian men who suffer with same-sex attraction, but they’ve repented of this sin that they cannot control (like some of us cannot control gossip, greed, gluttony, etc.), and as a response to God’s merciful forgiveness,  they don’t practise homosexual acts.  Sure, they still suffer with homosexual thoughts because that’s how this current life is in a sinful world, but by the strength of Christ they don’t act on them.

God is faithful and just and He forgave their sins, cleansing them from all unrighteousness  because He always remains faithful even when  they, and all of us, are faithless.

References
Irvin, P. (2012, October 21). Proof You Can’t be ‘Born Gay’. Retrieved October 14, 2015, from http://www.wnd.com/2012/10/why-you-cant-be-born-gay/

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